It just hit me that I have not written about the kids a long time.
I mean their most recent post is about being ill, and that, I doubt, count as memory worthy for when they are older. More so, isnt this blog about them? They make my emotions go extreme opposite ways throughout the day. Happy when they are just plain funny or say the darnest things, and angry, you could easily guess, ie when they throw a fit to get their way. Sends me from 1 to 100 in 2 seconds flat.
Since mostly I write about the house, easy facts, thought I should write how the kids are adjusting to the thought of moving to the new house.
Sophie...
She is easy on this. She loves the new house plain and simple and can occupy herself easily when she is there. She just loves it, I suspect the pool's a main draw, but maybe a new play area's cool to a young 2 yr old too. She just loves to go.
Her only problem? Sleeping on her own, in her own room. No more Mama by her side. She's been refusing to entertain the thought of sleeping in her shared room (with K) in the lower storey and everytime I glam up the topic of their own room and own bed and more so, bunk bed, she says "Mei Mei sleep with Mama, upstairs".
Finally one day, when I asked, she says "(What if) Mei Mei cry, Mama (can't hear me)" from upstairs. Immediately I told her the baby monitor will always ensure that I hear her, so as soon as she cries, I'll run downstairs. 2 seconds she thought silently, and she said, "OK, Mei Mei sleep downstairs". She amazes me a lot with the things she say, and mostly, her ability to process and verbalise her thoughts, cos comparatively, she is more advanced than K was her age.
So she is all set to go, and I *cross fingers* on them staying in their own beds!
Kayden...
Now he is more of a challenge for he is a super sensitive boy and more so, a big creature of comfort like his daddy. He's not too keen on new stuff, but he understands that we're a family so we move as one. Perhaps one part of him feels like he is forced to go, but deep down, he's still stuck to me like glue and will choose to be with me wherever I go (ah ha, unless there is Ben 10 or TV!! I still lose to modern technology on any normal day)
Then there is his connection with his grandmother. He's stayed with her since he was 2-3months old and she's been his secondary caregiver when I'm not around so naturally they have a strong bond. With us moving out, I know MIL will miss the kids most and Kayden had told me that GM asked why does he have to move? And he proceeded to explain to me that GM is his family too... Hence, my rule, a family stays together, applies to her too.
He likes the new house but I know he has this burden of moving away, from the house he is familiar with and from the grandma whom he loves. I'm not so sure if this is the cause, but he is a whole lot more whiny-er and cries easily this week (the move's in 9 days!). Anything small like Sophie hitting him or pinching his cheeks (they fight like this) or when I refuse to carry him, he really cries, fat tears rolling down his cheeks. His little troubled heart probably triggers easily at every small thing, so everything's looking sad. Other than the tantrum bits, he is still the same.
But I know, kids being kids, new place being a new playground, he'll be fine. He'll just have a period of adjustment longer than his sis, but he dont have to worry, as I bet we'll still see his grandparents at least 3-4times a week. We're not that far away, only 10-15mins drive.
Oh yeah one more, I think he also doesnt like the thought of an empty new house to live in. "Ma, where are the beds, chairs, tables??" Perhaps when the furniture is in, it'll help him transition better. At least one bright start - he loves the hanging stairs lamp!
As for us, we're taking things so easy that we have not even started packing. Only thing I've done is post more unused stuff on eBay to sell, things that we wont need in the new house. The market's very price-sensitive, so as long as I sell cheap, the sales are coming in... Which is good, I think, in a way, I guess. Hmmm.
Oh well, ready or not, 9 days, here we come. It'll be a very hectic weekend ahead with furniture deliveries all coming in 2 days before the official move-in ritual. Let's see how we can make it, me being a uber lazy last minute person.
*That's how the boy looks like forcing his sister into position and yet try to be gentle in handling her, while he, forced himself to keep still. Kids photography - so tough! What's more, nowadays, all done w e camera phone!*